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2008/06/24 23:55:09

永欣是迟来的宝贝。

那一年小姑与先生凭着一股傻劲,到美国拼搏,

造化弄人,他们的第一个孩子,在四岁的时候得了脑膜炎。

上天没有带走他,却一点一滴夺去他的健康,从活泼可爱到失智,

躺在床上变成植物人,历经一年多的时间,医师已经宣布放弃,

但是可怜的父母不愿放手,小姑放弃自己的任务,

全心全意没日没夜的照顾他,孩子病了二十一年,现在已经二十五岁。

从躺在床上毫无知觉,到现在可以带着他在户外走动,他的医生认为是奇迹,

还告诉其他得相同病症的家庭,去看这对伟大的父母,如何照顾病童。

小姑本来不想再生,永欣却意外的降临。

这个小女孩,带给这个几乎忘记世上还有欢笑的家庭,最多的快乐与希望。

她懂事、体贴温柔,她一张开眼就知道母亲的辛苦。

她总是安静的看书,哥哥抽筋的时候,母亲掉泪的时候,

小小的她已经知道自己的责任,她从不吵闹,

不要再增添爸爸妈妈的负担,早熟的令人心疼。

隔壁新搬来了一个邻居,会拉小提琴,悠扬的琴音,让永欣驻足聆听。

妈妈知道女儿想学,就做了蛋糕,忐忑的敲邻居大门,吞吞吐吐的帮助来意,

那个人皱着眉,打量这个不速之客,勉为其难的答应了。

永欣果然有天分,短时间就让老师惊艳,老师也乐得英才而教之。

她的琴艺进步神速,小小年纪就考取了市立交响乐团,

乐团指挥欣赏她的天分,从不轻易收徒的她,亲自指导这个小神童,

永欣也不负众望,多次得到比赛的大奖。

她的在校成绩也是出类拔萃,今年初中毕业,荣获年度荣誉学生与市长奖,

毕业典礼时代表毕业生致词,以下是永欣致词的全文:「面对恐惧

Facing Your Fear                                     by Shannon Ho                 

Congrats, class of 2008! We’ve all worked hard for this moment,

and now we’re going to high school! But, one day, something called fear

may keep us from doing what is right or prevent us from facing a

challenge. It already holds some of us back from chasing our dreams.

Everyone has a fear, even those who deny it. The fear itself can be to

stand up for somebody, to speak out against someone you dislike,

or even to confront a friend. We are also afraid because of the

possibilities of results; we might get hurt, not fit in, not being

thought of as 'cool'. But look, this is life! And in life, we should take

chances, and do what’s right no matter what. Don’t let your fears

stop you from reaching your goals, your dreams. Whatever the

consequence is, at least you won’t ever look back and wonder

what would have happened. Don’t let past disappointments make you

afraid of the future. Instead, appreciate everything you already have,

and move on with your life. Look at us now. We’re going on to high

school, and we have loving families who will support us, friends who

will stand by our side, and teachers who will aid us when we truly need it.

So don’t let your fears control your life. Control them, do what’s

right, and remember that you’re not alone.

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Wayne Ho
Arthur & Shannon
2008/06/28 04:43

Arthur is permanently disable, he can’t talk, see or hear after two month in coma when he was sick, but after all these years, we know he can see something and hear us when we call his name, but we really don’t know how much because he still can’t talk or express himself.

We have tried Chinese acupuncture, Chinese herbs, church’s healing service etc…everything we can think of it, but nothing works.

So, facing your fear like Shannon said on her speech, we still have so many people who care and love us; we are not along in this battle.

Thank you all for the kind words you posted, your responds sure is encouraging for Ho’s family, and we really appreciate that.

GOD blesses you all!

Wayne


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这个家庭受到祝福
2008/06/27 07:51

好感动。男人可以如此慈爱,真是上帝的恩典。

不知这25岁的大孩子现在的状况如何? 我有个格友:逸竹,儿子David小时候得到严重脑膜炎,她不弃不舍,终于把孩子从失智边缘拉回来。

现在孩子已经可以上幼稚园,虽然不如当初的超智,但是已经可一像正常孩子一样交互,还很喜欢画画。

逸竹用中药调理孩子,您可以和她聊聊。


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嗯...英文没学好...
2008/06/27 00:02

那个...谁谁..来翻译一下吧....


StarryStella
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英文致词
2008/06/26 10:49

说得真好!

就去感恩已拥有的一切吧!

一直在我们左右的家庭.老师.朋友,

这股力量可以让我们面对所有挫折及恐惧!


奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 22:25 回覆:

谢谢您的鼓舞及到访

这篇致词是她自己写的

点点滴滴全来自对生活及生命的体认


成吉思汗的妈
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感人的故事
2008/06/26 10:38
每个小孩都是父母的宝贝
奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 22:26 回覆:

无怨无悔的付出

十年如一日


Wayne Ho
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2008/06/26 00:05

Shannon is an angel, but Arthur is one as well. He is so innocent, pure, loveable and always love to give you a hug if you are willing to open up yourself first.

 

Josie is an angel too (Guarding Angel to Arthur of course), there is no comparisons to the sacrifice she made, unconditional and unlimited to Arthur and all of us.

 

I’m the luckiest person in this world, to have child like Arthur & Shannon and a wonderful wife like Josie, children's best Mom, I’m blessed.

 

Shannon's Dad

Wayne

奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 07:36 回覆:

感恩永欣爸爸的回函

他说这一切都是恩典

哥哥妈妈及永欣都是天使

他是全世界最幸运的人

他感谢大家的祝福


七琴
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一字一字读完
2008/06/25 22:36

永欣的毕业致词

对照前面的故事

不禁哽咽了

好个天使永欣

好个勇敢面对恐惧的家庭!!

奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 07:40 回覆:

生活中有许多挫折恐惧

永欣从小就知道它了

无所畏惧 控制畏惧

最后是战胜它了


梦屋子
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感动
2008/06/25 21:52
化妆的祝福总是出其不意,我家也有特别的天使呢!
奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 07:41 回覆:
把您的故事也说给大家分享吧

Ann
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小天使
2008/06/25 20:05

永欣真是小天使.

祝福他与哥哥.

奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 22:22 回覆:

谢谢您的祝福和图片

点滴在心头


meow~我爱中华民国生日快乐
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伪装的祝福
2008/06/25 19:24

感人至深!

圣经和荒漠甘泉里都讲 "伪装的祝福" ~ 在人看是无比挫败沮丧甚至痛苦

却是上天所赐予的伪装的祝福

操练成如此不凡的父母并获得真正的祝福!

奇异的奇异果(zm7076) 于 2008-06-26 22:32 回覆:

谢谢您的鼓舞及启发

这一步一步走得好辛苦

当我看见永欣爸爸的回函

泪如雨下  

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